Have you ever tried meeting a dating drama queen? Beware
don’t follow suit because it is undeniably a big turn off for men.
When you hear the word dating drama, what comes to your
Here are several suggestions for you as follows: confusion,
trouble in the family, conflict, and problems exaggerated issues, etc. Have you
ever met and talk to a person who is always problematic and tells you her/his
problem as if has no end? Well, that’s unequivocally what a dating drama
is. Below are lists of various dating dramas that would send off your potential
mate; read on.
always running late, so he is always waiting.
Among the many types of Dating Drama,
tardiness is the worst. If you have a dating schedule, it is essential to put
all other daily activities and prepare for the upcoming date. Never keep your
man waiting as it may bore him to the bones and might take his leave before you
She inevitably has something negative to say about everyone she
comes in contact with and everyone is ‘out to irritate her.”
The most desirable feature of this type of
drama is Negativity. Never emulate this attitude when you have a date. Consider
another interesting topic to discuss with that will capture the other party’s
attention. Talking about all of your contradictory emotions towards other
people is disgusting.
She doesn’t get along with his family and doesn’t try to
understand or get to know them better, and she always wants him all to herself.
When you are on a date, never disclose
anything about the past relationship with your ex; more so about your
relationship with his family. Do not even dare bring up into the conversation
how your ex, attend your children because it sounds less interesting for your
potential date, not unless he opened up the topic.
cannot get enough attention.
Women by nature are talkative, but not all women are egoistic and
selfish. If you want to keep your date and make him stay a little longer, then
stop monopolizing the conversation. Stay away from “I am” and “Me, Myself and
I” conversation so that all eyes and ears will be directed to you. Give your
man time to speak anything interesting under the sun.
makes him feel like nothing he ever achieves is good enough.
Another drama act of a dating drama queen is to exaggerate stories
that will make her as a helpless victim. It will definitely turn potential
partner off. Never elaborate anything that had transpired in complete detail.
seem to pursue her like the plague.
It isn’t wise talking about trivial matters like your car needs
fixing for the nth time because a family member broke it down; or perhaps
having unpaid bills because you lend your money to a needy co-worker, etc. Bear
in mind that your date is not a guidance counselor nor psychiatrists where you
can air out anything you want to.
likes to argue, and I don’t mean a debate.
Pretending that you have a lot of knowledge stuffed inside your brain; starting a debate
with your date isn’t logical at all. You might end up humiliated especially if
the man in front of you is smarter than you are. Instead of impressing him, it
will only leave a stigma to your personality.
Showing your date that you are sad is quite different from telling him that you are not happy because everybody makes you
feel bad. This act doesn’t sell at all; you better find another topic such as his activities during his free time would
certainly paint a smile on his face. It might make him linger for another
couple of minutes instead of making an excuse to get away from you.
insecure and anxious he may desert her, which creates problems.
When you are dating, do not ever allow the other
party notice your insecurities. Never tell him of your jealousy towards your
previous husband as it might give him reason to get away from you as soon as
possible. Men by nature hate possessive women, which is why telling him about
your jealous encounters with your ex-husband is a red flag.
She is a
tad bit unstable.
Finally, telling your date about your emotional outburst like
burning your ex-husband’s clothes, or poured dishwashing soap in
his gas tank indicates that you are not mentally fit. If that’s the case, you
better consider your date history. You will never ever see him again.
now that you know several lists of dating drama acts, ask yourself if you had
ever done that for once in your dating life is concerned. If you did, then it’s
finally time for you to go on dating without drama and you will be surprised to
see the result.